Nothing is more upsetting or more frustrating than when your date doesn’t call back after you go out for the first time. Even though you worked hard to try and give her the best date ever, women don’t always bite and she might just end up not being interested. It doesn’t mean that you didn’t do well or that you aren’t charismatic and attractive. Some women are just ridiculously picky, and others even go on first dates and never call back just for the fun of it. So, when the blues are setting in and she isn’t calling you back, what should you do?

Give Her a Call

Before you totally give up on her, try calling her first. You never know, she might have ended up losing your number or may even just be too nervous to call you out of fear that you hated the date. It doesn’t mean that she’s done with you, so don’t just drop her without giving her a fair chance. After all, it isn’t her job to call you first, and if she’s nervous then she never will. A nervous woman will assume after a few days of you not calling her that you aren’t interested and will give up. If you give her a few calls and she doesn’t ever respond, it’s probably safe to assume that she isn’t going to call back. Don’t call her too many times or else you’ll just seem creepy and obsessed – after the first date, there’s no reason to be that clingy.

Keep Your Head High

If you have been dumped, don’t let it phase you too much. After all, it wasn’t as if you’d been dating for a long time. One date does not make a relationship, so don’t let it get to you. Keep your chin up and tell yourself all the cons about her, so you don’t feel as bad about the whole situation. Don’t get spiteful and send her rude texts or anything, but there’s no reason to put yourself down over something like this. You’re still a great guy that women will go nuts over, just not that woman in particular. Ah well, you can’t please them all.

Get Back Out There

The worst thing you can do once you’ve been dumped is to become reclusive. Holing yourself up in your house might seem like the right thing to do until you start feeling better, but it’s actually the opposite. Getting back into the dating scene as soon as you can is best, because then the memory of her doesn’t linger. Staying at home thinking about that one glorious date will just leave you feeling empty and like you failed somehow, so don’t subject yourself to that. Get off the couch or out of bed, get dressed up, and head on out to the bar. There are a million other ladies just dying to go on dates with you, and this one girl doesn’t mean a thing. There are millions of other fish in the sea.