Approach Guide: The Gold Digger
One kind of women you’ll meet, whether you use free local dating services or paid ones, is the gold digger. These women are out to find a man with money that will take care of them, and they’re not shy about it.
You can pick them up, even if you’re not made of money.
There are lots of ways that you can have a great time with gold digging women, even if you’re a regular bloke. We’ve done it, and we’re very emphatically not wealthy men.
The most important thing is that you must act like you have money. As long as you do that, you’ll easily be able to find a woman who’s willing to accept your advertised status.
We’re not saying that you have to completely lie about who you are, either. These women vary greatly. Some of them are looking for a bloke with lots of cash, but some just think they are.
What they’re REALLY looking for is a man that can take care of them. They want a man that’s strong, confident, and well-off as a way of being able to take care of a woman he likes, not for the money itself.
Try renting a nice car.
You can get a rental for a single day for less than the price of a few pints at the pub. It will make you look much more well-to-do, and you don’t have to worry about trading in your old clunker.
If she asks why you’re unfamiliar with the car, tell her the truth: it’s a rental. Just tell her that your own car is in the shop for some issues.
No, you can’t keep renting a car forever. But if you do it for your first few dates, you’ll be able to tell much more easily whether this woman is only interested in you for the money that she thinks you have.
Prepare Your Wardrobe.
Unless you’re so wealthy that you don’t have to rent a nice car, you probably need a bit of help with your wardrobe. Fortunately, we’re men, and we’re not expected to have the limitless supply of clothing that women are expected to have.
You need a few shirts, one pair of slacks, and one nice pair of shoes—and that’s it.
This will be your dating outfit collection. You want to look like you’ve got several outfits stashed away, and this is the easiest, cheapest way for you to pull that off as the truth.
You don’t need to have a dozen pairs of slacks. There’s no way for anyone to tell how many pairs of black slacks you have (or tan, or khaki, or brown, or whatever color your best slacks are). If you change your shirt, she’ll think you have an entirely new outfit on.
If you don’t have these items already on hand, invest in them. They’ll serve you well for any dates, job interviews, and most lines of work that you’ll find in the future.
You don’t want a true gold digger.
A true gold digger is ONLY interested in the exact size of a man’s pocketbook. She doesn’t care about him, and she’s not interested in a real relationship. She’s interested in having her student loans, her credit card bills, and her rent paid for by a man.
We don’t mind attracting women who think we’re made of money. That’s usually just a good way to find out whether these women are worth spending time with or not.
However, we draw a line at these women who only want actual cash money, not all the accouterments, not to be taken care of. These women are honestly much closer to prostitutes than girlfriends. We’re not really all about that lifestyle, to be frank.
Make sure that this woman is interested in you, and thinks the money is a nice bonus.
If the woman turns out to be just interested in the money you make, cut her loose. If she starts asking you for actual cash money, especially within the first few dates, cut her loose.
This is supposed to be fun for both of you. If you’re not having a good time with this woman, you’ve got to let her go so you can both start seeing other people as soon as possible.