Approach Guide: The Free Spirited Woman
As much as we love every kind of woman that we’re set up with, there are certain types that you meet online who require a bit more strategy to approach than others. One of these is a type we like to call the “Free Spirited Woman.”
You’ve definitely met this woman before. She doesn’t wear a suit to work, she doesn’t believe in arbitrary rules, and she has a lot of opinions about things that she believes.
These women are great fun.
The important thing to remember about dating a woman like this is that you represent yourself correctly. They want a very certain type of man, and it’s important that you can deliver that.
Don’t come off coy or shy with this woman.
A free spirited woman wants a man without a care in the world. She’s not worried about dating service scams, so she won’t be all that firm about vetting you for a first date.
This woman wants spur of the moment romance. She doesn’t want a lot of extra frills, she wants to be surprised and taken somewhere for a great time. She isn’t interested in scams, just romance.
At times, you might have to be the cooler head and prevail, but this woman is definitely worth it. She’s a little wild, but she’s a lot of fun when you get to know her.
Surprise her.
She’ll love a fun, artsy day trip, and you don’t need to tell her where you’re going. Just let her know that it’s a surprise, and she’ll enjoy it when you get to where you’re going.
A trip that ends with an interesting, unique dinner is the best idea of all. This woman will love the tastes of the food, and you’ll enjoy watching her lose herself in the moment.
The best surprise is you.
If you really want to get her surprised, cook her dinner. She’ll love that you went to all the effort of cooking something for her—but be careful not to cook something that she can’t eat. Sometimes, these types of women are vegetarians, vegans, or require officially cruelty-free food ingredients.
For best results, alternate between cooking at home and leading her on a romantic evening out on the town, or in the country. She’ll respond very well to impulsive, spontaneous behavior.
These women can seem like scams.
Remember how we said that the free spirited woman isn’t all that interested in vetting for scams? That does lead to a slightly inconvenient thing where they can sound like scams themselves.
These women can be very aggressive about getting what they want. That comes hand in hand with their impulsive nature. They might agree to a date with you right away before exchanging the usual amount of messages first, which can lead you to think they might be an online dating service scam.
However, these women are real. They believe in the things that they feel as strongly as they do in the things that they see. Her gut instinct is probably telling her that you’re a great match.
Follow her lead.
If you think that this woman is legit, go ahead and go with your gut. You might be getting into a great relationship that you would otherwise have missed by being too cautious.
Be smart.
Even if you’re going to trust that this woman is the real deal, that’s no reason to be foolish. Make sure you watch out for common signs of an Internet dating scam.
If she starts asking you for cash money BAIL IMMEDIATELY. This is not the kind of woman you want to be seeing. If she asks you to wire her anything before you meet, she’s a scam, simple as that. We’re sorry, but you can always find another Free Spirited Woman on your dating services.
