The Balancing Act

When you’re using dating services, you want to have a strategy down pat before you get started. One of our most successful online dating service strategies is to use multiple sites at the same time.

Using multiple dating services can be confusing.

This is probably the easiest way to maximize your exposure to the largest amount of quality women. However, that doesn’t mean you won’t be undertaking a grant challenge.

You’ll be meeting hundreds of women during your time on these sites. Any man would have trouble juggling them all, so don’t worry if you do at first. You’ll get past that stage.

Keep them separate.

One thing that helps us is to keep our accounts separate with different email addresses and passcodes for each one. That means we’ll always have to put ourselves in a separate mentality.

It also helps us separate the women we’ve met on each site. There’s nothing more insulting to a woman than having her name messed up. If you have to make notes, make notes. It’s preferable to being slapped in the proverbial online face.

Set a schedule.

This is one of our best tips for helping you to maximize your success on dating services. Yes, we know, using a schedule doesn’t sound like any fun at all. However, it can be possibly the most important thing you’ll do for yourself on an online dating service.

Even though it sounds like no fun, it will help you pull with more women. Hopefully, that sounds like quite a bit more fun!

The first thing to do with your schedule is to simply write down how much time you’re spending on which websites. You don’t have to change anything just yet, but write down how long you’re using a dating service, and how many women you’ve contacted on each site. Also start to keep track of how many women have contacted you or responded to your emails on each site, but don’t expect too many results just yet.

Keep track like this for a solid week.

At the end of the week, you’ll hopefully be able to see where your time is being well-spent—and where it’s being wasted. If you find yourself wasting a lot of time due to the features on a particular site, you might want to remind yourself to cut down your time there.

If you find that there’s another site where you get a great response despite only spending a bit of time, you can adjust your plans accordingly. You can help to maximize the time you put into each site this way.

This helps you find more women, more quickly.

We’ve found there’s something of a law of diminishing returns regarding websites like this. When you put in just a few minutes, you’re not going to get the same results as if you put in half an hour a day.

However, after that the gains slow down. If you put in two hours a day, you likely aren’t going to see much of a jump from when you put in just half an hour—there just won’t be that many more women that you can really email every day on a given site.

Ditch sites that don’t work.

If a site isn’t finding you women, get rid of it. You don’t need to waste your money by paying to not meet any women.

Give a website a month, perhaps two, in order to start working. That’s how long it usually takes us before we start seeing significant results. If you can’t get any results by then, you should probably get rid of the site you’re currently using to meet women.

Don’t forget to USE the sites you pay for.

No dating service works if you don’t use it. Make sure you’re not wasting your money, and actually sign on to all of the sites you pay for, at least two or three times a week.

If you don’t log on at least that much, you’ll have a hard time getting any woman interested. You have to be at least a little bit available, or they’re going to move on and find a man who uses his dating service more frequently.