A great way to keep your marriage exciting is to decide on swinging, but only if you aren’t the jealous type. If you and your wife have already tried swinging, then you already know how this works and are comfortable with the situation. The best parts about swinging are the parties that are held by various couples, so you must want to know how to host your own. Being a host for any party is stressful, but being host to a party dedicated to sex is even more taxing. There are a lot more things to consider: safety, compatibility, and even being properly stocked for the night.

Safety

The most important thing about hosting a swingers’ party is to ensure that you know everybody who will be in attendance. It’s crucial that the guests feel safe and secure at the event, and that you don’t have to worry about the moral character of the people who couples are swapping with. Plenty of people who hear about a swingers’ party will go just to get lucky, and will even bring fake husbands and wives to trick other people into thinking that they’re a happily married couple. All in all, be selective about who you invite. Make sure that the guests know not to open the invitation to anyone who they don’t clear with you first, and the night will be much more fun.

Compatibility

Much like any other party, it’s important to consider compatibility before you send out the invites. The last thing you want is a fight breaking out in the middle of the event, so don’t combine couples that you know don’t get along. This is vital if you plan on drawing names to choose who to switch with; you want to be sure that everyone gets along just fine. If you need to, ask your top few couples if there are any couples that they absolutely don’t want to come. It’s far better to get your favorites to come than to get a bunch of random people together – not to mention it’ll keep the event from getting too convoluted. It’s hard to keep track of a huge group of people, so small get-togethers are best anyway.

Cleanliness and Preparedness

If people are going to be getting it on at your party, it’s important to keep your place clean and well stocked for the night. Nobody wants to go into a dirty bedroom to have sex (unless they’re really desperate), and keeping the place picked up will ensure that nobody gets hurt, either. Small items on the floor can be tripped over easily in the dark, ending in injury and just general irritation.

Having plenty of condoms and lubrication on hand will make you the perfect party host. There’s nothing more awkward than making your way to the bedroom only to find that you’ve forgotten condoms or other essentials, so they’ll be grateful that you have extras stocked. Think of them like any other party necessity, the same as snacks, entertainment, and those paper plates that you might want to purchase before the event.